THE OTHER SIDE
Many a times we are ashamed of our other side and usually keep it away from everyone. Here’s what i think after several years of intense thinking…
Hiding our shadow can be considered as the highest form of betrayal…according to me one shouldn’t conceal the dark part, coz its something where one needs to work the most. Ignoring may seem easy to surmount things…believe me, if you’re doing so, you’re simply inviting bunch of complications.
By concealing we aren’t only betraying others but ourselves too, which automatically results in secrecy,manipulation and pretending take over their lives and those people often suffer from the fear of getting exposed and rejected for the part they are hiding.
More we try to repress these dark corners,the more we face disorder in dealing with life. Exploring these, not only have a healing transformation but also strengthen the very ‘us’ . When you get to know the “all you” , then you won’t need to pretend anymore.
NOTE : I’m not at all advising to change the very you, but rectification along with little bit of modification can help you achieve wonders.
KEY : One should be able to speak with its own shadow and that to without any guilt.
CHANGE : A friend or foe ?
Yesterday , me and dad were discussing about the modification which is to be made in our home and the floor plans. What he replied -was simply thought provoking…
Me: we can tear down the way for staircase through this ceiling…
Dad : “If the structure is to be made firm and strong, then we should concentrate more on adding things…not deconstructing and breaking.”
Here’s what i inferred : Changing or recreating our lives doesn’t always mean to break the very ‘us’…we really don’t need new beginnings everytime.
Effacing and breaking are amongst those things which would make us look stronger and prosperous but its effect is only for a while, doesn’t help in a long run. These’re just like pain killers or passive immunity….fades away with time, and we feel the same pain sooner or later.
What we really need is modification along with addition…Instant of something isn’t really good everytime..we always rush to get back on track and while rushing our real problem go un-noticed or unseen, thats where the real problem lies and thats what we need to understand.